One of the things that i personally see a lot lately in people that i’m surrounded with is that they have a fear. A fear that stops them of doing things. Things that they really want,things they are passionate about. One time you say : “Yes! I can do it”. And moment later something inside your head says to you… “No, you can’t”, “Nahh.. It’s kinda stupid..” or “What will others say or think?” And one of the reasons that i discovered lately that it’s all lying within us, and even let’s say we were programmed since we were little. Remember when we were kids and we were playing outside and we heard the voice: “Hey,get off there!” “Don’t go there! ” “Don’t do it! “. Well…Yes… That’s the beginning of it all. It somehow developed that inner feeling of undeserviness and unworthiness.FEAR.Fear of I CAN DO IT.

Just couple of months ago I were lookingfor a shoulder to cry. To tell my friends how bad things are in my life. Well as a matter of fact things were not that bad at all actually! I just didn’t see it. I wanted to do things that I dream about a long time now. And then I realized that there was something in me that just didn’t let me think clear. Some imaginary obstacles that my mind created.I mean look! I can do so much things!
Learn new skills, new languages, read books, educate myself! So many cool stuff there is to learn! And when you are in that process of starting to love yourself again, give yourself a value that you actually worth something there comes the moment of clarity. No time for whining! Your eyes see what you didn’t see before! First I looked at myself in a mirror and said to myself: “Look! You are completely healthy person, young, beautiful and with so many potentials! Why are you constantly blaming everything and everybody for your failures in life? You are the one to blame if something is not going the way you want it! You are the CREATOR of your life! So what is it that you want to create Julia?” I thanked the universe for everything that I had. And then I realized how things work. You have to leave the OLD YOU in YESTERDAY and start changing YOURSELF TODAY!!! You have to start believing in yourself, that you deserve the best in life, that you are worthy. You know,it’s hard I would say. For me it was. Because if you really go back in time and remember all these words that you heard when you were a child and that you have to deal with it today and overcome them …pfff … it’s a big step. It’s a big step to prove to your mother that you can actually be someone! Do big things! Inspire people! Do good, have a purpose in life. Because not always you have those people near you that will tell you that yes … you can do it! GO for it! Instead you hear: “You have to go to school, get a day job and work for the big company for the rest of your life.” In short words – Don’t be a dreamer… Get out of your fantasy world…

Well let me tell you something about dreams. Everything started with a dream. You know it! Somebody woke up one beautiful morning.. looked up in a sky and said: “I wish i would fly like a bird!” We now have gigantic metal birds which allow us to do the “impossible”. To fly! Another example: “I wish I could travel beyond the Earth!” Here you go. We’ve been to the moon! I mean.. Isn’t it awesome!!! We can do so many things that we can’t even imagine! Actually we can. We imagine it,we dream it – We Can Do It! It all started with a dream.
So get out there,do what you have to do. Ignore -” You can’t”. Yes you CAN and now you know it even better! Just ignore those who are at the rock bottom and want you to be there too with them. No! You have your dreams and goals that you want to achieve and you have unlimited opportunities for it! You just have to see them. You have to be crystal clear about it though. You have to know exactly what you want. And as soon as you know – you come closer to your goals – and your goals are coming closer to you!
Thank you for reading this article that I wrote from my heart. Be grateful and love life!With LOVE, Julz.